HOME FOR CHRISTMAS

 

 
ss "Leerdam"


Courtesy of :
George & Julia Regnerus


A description of the story of the unsuccessful emigration attempt was written by P.J. Wierstra, a native Marrumer, who taught theology in Amsterdam, in his booklet "Home for Christmas" (published by Amsterdam D.B. Centen, 1919).
 

A married couple, a house and a problem.

"What do think, husband?"
"I don't know".
"What do you think, wife? "
"I don't know either"

And we, that read this, know even less. We haven't a clue as to what the conversation is about. But the man and woman know very well what they are talking about. Every single day, for weeks on end, they converse about the same subject. But I'm getting ahead of myself. First I should tell everyone where we are and who we are speaking of.
The man is Foeke Regnera, the woman is Grietje Vlug. They have been married for twenty-one years, have eight children, an old-fashioned large family. Peace reigns in this household, they say that you're much better off having ten peace-loving people in a small area than two in a castle arguing all the time.

Regnera is a farmhand, has been that all his life, well most of his life, not counting the few years he spent going to school. He was a tall man, very healthy and being outdoors all the time gave him a  healthy tanned face which made him look younger than a man nearing his fiftieth birthday. His hair and beard were still black, not a hint of gray. Working outdoors in God's fresh air did not age the skin as much as modern people think. Another contributing factor to Foeke's youthful appearance was that he was content, even tempered, not a great talker and friendly to everyone. That, in a nutshell, is Foeke. People in the small town say Foeke is  a "well balanced character", that's what they called people that are true to themselves. Without  complaining, Foeke worked hard for farmer Oostenga for many years.
Foeke's wife, Grietje Vlug (Vlug means quick, fast) lives up to her name. In every way she was quick. She takes care of her large family, manages them with a swift mind and sure hand . She hadn't learned much growing up, but these two assets and a healthy attitude to life gave her the ability to correctly assess people and respect them. She is also very adamant in her daily routine. Maybe she can't correctly describe what humour is, but saying humorous things comes naturally to her. Her children are crazy about her.

Seven of them are still at home, the eldest, now nineteen, is serving his term in the army. The second son works for the same farmer as his father. The eldest girl in the family, helps mother at home as soon as she is old enough to leave school. As soon as the second daughter is old enough she will help mum and the older girl will leave home to serve as a maid for one of the richer farmer's wives. What the rest of the children -they came in sets of two boys, two girls- would do later in life was not yet a concern, they are still  in school and will be for a few years. The youngest pair ( five and three) are still too young for school.

Okay, now we know who and what we're talking about.
Now let me tell you where this takes place. Foeke and Grietje's home is in the northern part of the Netherlands, in the province of Friesland, about three hours from Leeuwarden (then, it's about half and hour nowadays).  Now there is a preventive wall built around the sea perimeter of Friesland, but before 1600 there were no barriers to keep out the sea water during the heavy storms the North sea could produce. Especially the north or westerly storms would reek havoc in the little towns and people would flee to the "terpen"and "wieren" The Spaniard Caspar de Robles gave the Frisians the "Golden Hoop". The dike to Harlingen boasts the only statue of a Spanish person in the Netherlands and is called "The Stone Man", a memorial to the man who delivered tons of gold to Friesland and thereby avoided a lot of pain and suffering for the locals. Many family names are derived from these plateau names, think of Terpstra, Wierstra etc.
The tiny Regnera house stands against the dike, safe from water and wind. It's a very plain little home, with only one small window in the dike side wall to let in some light, but there is no view anyway, one side is the dike and the other is a wall. The one advantage is that this little home will remain standing if the water does break the dike. Across from the back wall is a wall with two windows in the one room the cottage has. The room includes two "bedsteden" (enclosed beds built into the wall) and a closet. Not very large nor high. If one stood up straight, one could easily touch the ceiling. Between the windows is the hearth (fireplace) with a cauldron. The fire burned constantly, except in the summer months when it would be moved to the outhouse behind the back wall.
In the outhouse (a work and storage place) is a  ladder to reach the attic. The attic is used to store peat, hay, potatoes, old tools and whatever else needed to be kept.  A small sheltered corner would serve as a bed for one of the children, Beside the house they built a lean-to to store various fruits and vegetables and to house the livestock . Regnera's entire herd was a few sheep, a few goats and one pig that was kept for the sole purpose of having a meat supply for the coming winter. Their dream of owning their own cow was still only a dream.

Now you can picture the situation the family lived in and you're probably thinking that it really wasn't much to write home about and you're right. The closest neighbors live about a ten minute walk from them. Days would pass by without seeing another human being besides their own family because not too many people walked by the house especially during  the  fall and winter. City folks would have a tough time and wouldn't last too long in  such an isolated spot. They would get bored very quickly. But the dike dwellers are different. They love the dike, their livestock and the isolation so much that they would not be willing to trade this for any place in a city or town.
The Regnera's are really attached to their little home. Not only because their lives flow gently and they earn a modest living, they enjoy a luxury in the spring and especially in the summer that city folks will seldom or never see. Whoever sits inside the little room or sits outdoors will witness the most beautiful scenery there is. The shiny cattle in the meadow, a mixture of colorful wild flowers and grasses, the rapeseed, pastel and white flax flowers, the corn fields and so much more to enjoy. A site that one cannot get enough of. As usual, people who see this daily are not too impressed with it anymore. It is however true, that being so close to nature is much better for the soul than all the hustle and bustle that factories in the city produce. Even the heavens at night proclaim the wonders of nature and their Maker. In the country God is great, but the cities are trying to make man great and God small.

The Regnera's are content, at least they have been up 'til now. Whatever happened outside their little circle didn't concern them at all. But, suddenly, one afternoon a strange gentleman came calling. He was Mr. Lagendijk. Mother Grietje was startled by the appearance of this well-mannered person. He introduced himself as an agent for a large company whose goal was to get farmers interested in developing land in South America, mostly Argentina. He was interested in getting farmers and carpenters to emigrate. The reason he wanted to see the Regnera's was that they were indeed a large family, with boys who were capable of hard work. Joining the company would make them prosperous and the company would pay the sea fare and give them land to work on, land which at a later date would have to be reimbursed. Even a simple farmhand could become a farm owner and South America would soon become a second home to them, as much as North America was to many Dutch and Frisian settlers. This was an offer that really was too good to refuse and all one needed was courage and the ability to take this chance. The Regnera's had that for sure. Mr. Lagendijk, in good character, did not make things seem better than they really were, all he did was repeat what others had told him. He, too, had never been in Argentina. He therefore did not expect Regnera to answer him immediately, that would have been unfair. The family Regnera should discuss this with each other and the rest of the extended family. Mr. Lagendijk gave them two weeks to think this through and then he would be back for an answer.

When Lagendijk left Foeke en Grietje sat and stared at each other in silence. Finally Grietje broke that silence by saying, "Now we are like the children of Israel who dreamt that they may be allowed to return to their homeland, and we have been made a offer to go to a new country. Gerrit (second son) said: "The guy sure could talk". Father answers: "That's his job and he has plenty of experience". Gerrit replies: "If what he says is true, it might be worth thinking seriously about this". Father says: "We have lots of time and we had better get some more information about this to find out if it's all that Lagendijk claims it is. I don't even know where that country is". Mother didn't think that that was too important and said that if you follow a trail you don't always know where it ends. But we're acting like we have to leave tomorrow, but we haven't decided anything at all. There might be savages or wild animals and no one but Bouke know how to uses a rifle and he's staying behind to finish his stint in the army! Another question we have to ask is how the climate is. For the time being there is no better country in the world than Friesland, we have a good life here. Why should we leave?

Much debating, but one decision.

"What do think, husband?"
"I don't know".
"What do you think, wife?"
"I don't know either"

And we who read this,  know even less what went on in their minds. But we know one thing for sure what this story is all about. Whether to go to Argentina or not is the important question which keeps the Regnera family busy day in and day out. There is not much time left for debating because as promised, 2 weeks after his first visit Lagendijk was back to see what their decision was. A load of questions were fired at him and to their satisfaction he answered all of  them. No, their decision to emigrate to this new land could not be made easily, but the questions that were answered by the agent were quite positive. Lagendijk felt the tension in the Regnera's home and tried his utmost to convince them to put their signature on the contract. But they did not want to do this as yet. They knew what the consequences would be if they did sign the contract, and asked how long they could postpone the signing. Lagendijk realized that he could not persuade them at this time and gave them another seven days to make up their minds. This was the  limit and a decision would have to be made soon.

Everything seemed so lucrative, but what if everything was too good to be true. "Just imagine", Grietje said "you a farmer and me a farmer's wife with our own farm without having to pay one cent for it". How was this possible. The other question is, is it the Lord's will? It says in the scriptures that everyone should keep doing his own trade in which he was placed in .But  I guess we will be doing this but then in another country and on a larger scale. The apostle Peter has instructed that we should not reach for higher goals but we should stay humble. But I suppose a person can try to better himself,  as far as humbleness goes a poor person can serve the Lord just as well as a rich person. And we must not forget that this opportunity was handed to us from above. Also this could interpreted as a sign from above, because the Lord works in mysteries ways. Whoever wants to become rich will most likely stumble, but if this is not our goal everything will work out well.
"I believe, Grietje, that you are quite positive about this emigration. But as for me I am quite reluctant to make this long and dangerous journey. If we decide to do this we will have to do this journey in the winter and it could be a very difficult one" said Foeke.
"No, Foeke, if you think that if this is what I want to do you are quite wrong. You know that I have a large family here and I would have to leave my father and mother and my kin behind  and I would probably miss them very much. But I also realize  that there is probably more  of a future for our children there then there is here" said Grietje. "The salaries that are paid here are very little" said Gerrit who thought it was about time that he had his say seeing that his mother was talking about the future of the children. "I have known the salaries to be lower then they are today and still we managed, if the salaries become higher the cost of living will just go up  and things will even out the same as they are now"  said Foeke.
"But father" said Reinder "I would rather be a farmer in South America than a farm hand in Friesland". "Yes son you might be right but I have lived in this area my whole life and I am very attached to this area and our little house". Reinder interrupted the conversation by saying "I don't really care for all these things here, I'll be happy where ever I can make a decent living". "We'll just have to see first whether we can make a decent living in Argentina, there is no  question about it  that we all have to work hard and seeing that we have our own farm we will be working twenty-four hours a day" said Foeke. "We'll just have to hire Spanish farm hands, I have been told that they live there" said Gerrit. "But Spaniards are lazy and we'll just wind up doing the work ourselves" said Grietje. "If that huge ocean wasn't between the two countries I wouldn't  hesitate to go, then a least we could easily go back if we wanted to" said Foeke. "If you have the money" said Grietje. " We'll probably become very rich there and in a few years we can come back for a trip as big farmers, and everyone will look up to us" said Gerrit enthusiastically. At these comments everyone started to laugh even the little Beitske on mothers lap started to cheer as though she understood what everyone was talking about.

In the town of Marrum in front of the black smith's place there was a small square which is called "the Beurs" which means exchange, this is a popular gathering place in the town, here politics, religion and any other news passes the review. Especially the local news is discussed here. The emigration plans of the Regnera family are of course the topic of the day.
"Do you think Foeke and Grietje will emigrate to South America?" asked Folkert Treklof, the man who's name can be spelled from front to back or visa versa and still is the same.
"I don't think they are that stupid" commented Big Pieter.
"Do you think it is stupid? This is quite a lucrative proposition they have been offered" said Siebren Jilderts.
Anne Gosses, the carriage builder agreed with Big Pieter. "All the agents are recruiters for large companies and the more people they can persuade to emigrate the more they make. You shouldn't believe all these  stories. Once the emigrants are across the ocean the agents wouldn't  care whether they were content or not. Yes you can travel down there for free, but if you wanted to go back you can forget it" said Anne Gosses. It was quiet for a moment after the carriage builder had spoken because he was considered to be a wise man, probably because he was a man of few words.
"Well Anne, do you really think the companies should give them a second pleasure trip" asked Ide de Roo, while he was filling his pipe.
"Would you call a boat trip across the ocean a pleasure trip?" said Jan van Dijk jokingly.
"How far is Argentina away from here" asked Meindert Winkel. There were a lot of different opinions concerning the length of this trip some said it would take up to three months to cross the ocean others said it could be done in one month. Finally they decided that since they did not have a clue about what they were talking about they should ask the school principal if anyone should know it he would be the one. "Okay" said Halma "Even if the trip is one day I would not consider doing it. Once, when I was in the army I was at sea for an hour and I was sicker than a dog. I still shiver at the thought of it ".
Skipper van der Ley said if it was only the trip he would have no problem with it. But an uncertain future in a strange land that is something else. Foeke would be fifty years old soon and then to move to a  strange country and live between total strangers and then to start all over again that was too big a risk as far as he was concerned .
"And what about the children?" asked Willem van der Zaag.
"Yes" commented van der Ley, for young people there is probably a future in America. But you have to be very careful. Money has been given to the railroads where no shovel has ever been put in the ground.
"But there probably is lots of land in South America" said Hendrik Post. The others agreed with him on that point.

The seven days that Foeke was given to think things over were nearing an end.
Everything had been thought over and over and debated for days and the finale decision was that they would go. When this finale decision had been made the whole family calmed down, everyone thought this was a good omen. The busy days that followed made them also forget what had taken place in the last months, but also brought back many memories. Furniture and tools could not be taken along, and since there was no time for a yard sale things were given away.
The  little house on the sea dike became emptier by the day but the hearts of those that still lived there beat faster as the days passed and the time drew nearer to the departure date. They spent most of the remaining time among their relatives and  close friends. They did not look forward to the day that they had to leave, not that they were sorry for what they had decided to undertake. On the contrary their faith became stronger by the day believing that they had made the right decision. Only the journey across the ocean is something that they were not looking forward to. En then not to mention the fact that Bauke the oldest son would stay behind, this was for everyone, especially Grietje, the hardest part. But after Bauke had served his time in the army he would surely join them. But this was still a couple of months away, and he would have to make ocean trip by himself.
The closer the day came for leaving the more they realized that the town people were supporting  the Regnera's. This became especially true on Sunday 8th of December when the family went to church, this was the last Sunday they would spend in Friesland. In the coming week they would leave. The first plans were that they were to leave on a earlier boot, but this one was overfull and so they had to leave one sailing later. The elderly preacher in town had a appropriate sermon  and in his prayers he begged the Lord that he would guide them on their long ocean journey and their uncertain future in that faraway land. At the end of the service they sang Psalm 121:

Unto the hills I lift my eyes.
Whence cometh all my aid

We wonder what went on in the minds of everyone in this little congregation. Everyone in the little community felt as one with the Regnera family. This was further felt when one by one they came by to say goodbye, many a hug was given and many tears were shed in the process.
On the evening of December 13th the family Regnera left the little house. The house was as good as empty except for a few odds and ends and sounded hollow as they closed the door behind them. Never the less to say goodbye was still difficult. They had lived there most of their lives and they left a lot of memories behind. Christmas was only another twelve days away. Grietje said "Who would have thought that last year was the last Christmas we celebrated here in Friesland" "That is true" said Foeke "But do you realize that this year we will spend Christmas on the big ocean. I wonder will there be a Christmas and New Year's service on board the ship?"

The last night was spent with family, and the next morning it was time to say goodbye. This was a very difficult time and many tears were shed. In the eyes of Grietje's parents it was like bringing their children to the grave, they realized that they would probably never see their children again. Foeke and Grietje were not the first to emigrate in the family, a few years ago two of their daughters had made the step to cross the ocean to emigrate to North America. It seemed that one by one the children were leaving. Grietje, having the same sense of humour as her father, said "Remember father when I got married you said that the birds had to fly away and leave the nest, well now we are flying away a little further that's.all. "Yeah, Yeah" said the old man "Joke all you want" But Grietje’s joking  was in such a manner that before she had finished say her last words she burst out in tears, and the handkerchief had to fulfil it's service. "Children and grand children" said the old man "God be with you" There was a little more hugging and waving and the Regnera's were out of sight.

The trip.

The Regnera's, just like most people were not accustomed to travelling, especially in the winter with small children and baggage. Hours on end they had to travel, the first part of the trip was unbearable. But they did not have any choice. Right after signing the contract a deadline was set, they had to be in Amsterdam by Saturday, because the following day the Leerdam would depart from Amsterdam. When they arrived in Leeuwarden after a  two hour journey in horse and buggy on a cobble stone path, mother and father Regnera were completely exhausted. Especially Grietje had a very tough time, the small child she was carrying on her lap suffered from motion sickness and so did the two other girls. And then they still had to make the train trip from Leeuwarden to Amsterdam. When the family arrived in Amsterdam that evening completely exhausted, they were confronted with another surprise. They could not board the ship till the next day, and so they were obligated  to find a roof over their heads for the night in a strange city and where they did not know anyone. Here they were, on the cold streets in Amsterdam and not knowing where to go. What were they to do? They had never felt so alone between hundreds of people that were walking the streets. Grietje thought of the words "Flying away a little further from the nest" and tears came to her eyes. Why didn't the agent tell them about the boarding of the ship? He should have known that they could not get off the train and board the ship.
Unexpectedly they were rescued by a  police officer who noticed the family of nine and understood immediately that something was wrong here. He was also from out side the city. He directed them to a cheap hotel that was close by. Silently they thanked the Lord. However tired they were they could not fall asleep  The impressions they experienced that day were too much to cope with. And then all those people on the streets, didn't these people ever sleep? At the crack of dawn the Regnera's were awake, it was dead quiet in the house and now all they had to do was to wait till the rest of the house awakened. After a simple breakfast and after having received instructions of how to get to the Ruyterkade they were sent on their way. After much walking and asking they finally arrived where the "Leerdam" was moored. It was nine o'clock in the morning, normally at this time they would have been in church in Marrum. But not here, they could not believe there eyes when they saw all the people shouting, running and shoving, and that on the Lord's day.  Lieuwe and Grietje were in anguish, was this the way to start the Lord's day of rest, could there be a blessing on the work they had to do today? But they had no choice but to go along with all these people. Grietje was disgusted  at a beggar who was trying to sell them something. "How dare you sell things on the Lord's day? You should be in church" she said. At the same time she handed him thirty cents, the last money she had. Her hart spoke, but also mouth, and this she did in her native tong, Frisian. This was heard by other people from Friesland  who were to make the same journey on the Leerdam. People became acquainted with each other and soon a group of families had formed together from Friesland. In no time at all they were so comfortable with each other as though they had know each other years. One language, the same trip, and the same goal, everyone had the same common feeling. There were some who thought the same as the Regnera's about how the Sunday rest was being disturbed, but they also didn't have any choice. Loading, running and shouting carried on for hours and the line of passengers became longer and longer. And finally the sign was given that the Leerdam was to leave.

Everyone who was not crew or passenger had to leave the ship. The ropes were thrown loose and they were on their way. On the quay people waved the last goodbyes, and the Leerdam was on her way through the North sea Canal  towards IJmuiden. In the evening they arrived  in the last harbour that would take them to the North sea. Soon they were heading towards open water, but they could not see anything because it was already dark. But feel they did, luckily there  was not much wind but the ship still shook and bobbed on the large ocean. Even though the Regnera's went to their bunks early they had trouble trying to fall asleep.
The pounding of the engines and the thought of only a thin layer of  steel between them and the deep ocean was not too comforting. Eventually around midnight they finally fell asleep. Because of the commotion of the day they were so tired that they fell in such a deep sleep that they did not even notice a shock around two-thirty in the morning. Minutes later the alarm was sounded and the first and second class passengers were requested to go to the main deck because a small a accident had taken place. This small accident which had taken place was a collision with a English freighter. The captain of the Leerdam assured that there was no reason to panic because nothing was wrong. On deck people walked around  to keep warm. Soon everyone realized that there was more wrong then they thought at first.
The English crew were jumping onto the Leerdam because the engine room of the English freighter was filling up with water so fast that two engine room crew members drowned. The collision had locked the two vessels together and the Leerdam with all her engines in reverse was trying to undo the situation. But it was of no use, the two ships were so locked together, and even though the Leerdam was not damaged too badly, but that in this situation both ships would sink. By this time the third class passengers were arriving on the main deck. Some half dressed others with lifejackets on and others with children in their arms. Everyone young and old, rich and poor, all were now running to the main deck and were aware of the predicament they were in.

Again, this morning everyone was running and shouting, but this time in fear and agony. Some were screaming and crying others were quoting bible verses and  still others were singing psalms. The confusion on the main deck of the Leerdam  was enormous, they all thought they were a deaths door. And then to think that they were only  half a day at sea. Light flares were fired in the air in all directions and distress signals were sent out, but there was no sign of help. Finally the captain of the Leerdam gave the command to lower the lifeboats. The Leerdam had seven lifeboats and the English freighter had two. The captain told the passengers that there was no reason to panic because everything was under control, but he knew better. He gave the command to start evacuating the passengers to the lifeboats starting with the third class  passengers. The panic and confusion was at this time enormous. With a revolver in his hand he held the passengers under control. Women and children were to go first, and he assured everyone that there was room enough for everyone in the lifeboats. This strict and  resolute attitude on the part of the captain did wonders. At this time many people thought  that the Leerdam would be tugged to a nearby harbour, so that also the freight and personal belongings would be saved. But the command was given to also evacuate the second and first class passengers to the lifeboats. And when  the captain, the last person on the Leerdam jumped in the lifeboat, everyone understood that the Leerdam was a lost cause and would certainly sink. The nine lifeboats were tied together with ropes so that they would not drift apart and then tied to the Leerdam. Every lifeboat was supplied with bread, water, a little bit of cognac, biscuits and ham. At this time it was eight o'clock in the morning. It had been an anguishing five hours. Every once in awhile some crew members were sent back to the Leerdam to pick up more  food supplies and blankets. When going from cabin to cabin for blankets they came across a Frenchman still fast asleep and not aware of what had taken place in the past hours. He had been on deck but when he heard the captain said that there was no danger he decided to go back to his cabin.. At the last moment he had been saved. At this moment 450 passengers and crew  were safe in the lifeboats. (Another report mentioned that 445 people were saved, also the writer was assured by Grietje Regnera that two people drowned. A drunk man and a small child hoe drowned because it was not caught when dropped in the lifeboat). But no one knew what was yet to come, all they could do was wait for help to come. It was very crowded and cold in the lifeboats. And because they had left in such a hurry most people had not put on or taken enough clothing with them. Worse than the cold was the crowdedness in the lifeboats, and to top this off people became seasick in the bobbing boats. Every hope of being rescued  was taken away when a heavy fog rolled in. It would be very difficult if not impossible to spot the lifeboats in heavy fog. In the next few hour the inevitable happened the two ships that were locked together would not break loose and started to sink. The rope that fastened the lifeboats to the Leerdam snapped like a thread. The Leerdam started to keel over and started to sink to the bottom of the ocean. Many people were crying as they saw how the cattle which had managed to break loose swam around in the cold water for a few minutes and sank out of sight. When distress is at it's peak rescue is near. This is what was experienced by the survivors when around  three o'clock that afternoon a shout was heard "A ship, a ship" Everyone started shouting and screaming, everything that could make noise including trumpets was used to catch the attention of the passing ship. Everyone started cheering when the ship set course toward the lifeboats. Saved at last. Tears of joy flowed when the passengers entered the French steamship the "Emma".

The "Emma" was a freight ship that was on her way to Hamburg, Germany. For the many passengers and crew was there was no comfortable room on the ship. But no one seemed to care, they were saved that was more important then anything else. The French captain made room for everyone as good as he could. He looked after the women and children very well. There was  no end to the rejoicing when all the families were reunited. But the anguish and cold they had experienced in the past hours had exhausted many people so much that they could not even bite through the biscuits they were given. These people were given a piece of white bread and a glass of wine. The captain of the Emma had taken some supplies out of the freight boxes to give to the survivors. Everyone was very pleased with the hospitality  the captain showed them even though the men and those who were strong enough had to settle with less food. There was no other option because the freight boat did not have enough supplies to feed the almost 500 people. But the people were saved, that was the main thing. All the other things were inessential. The Emma set her course for Hamburg. The objective was to reach Hamburg by Tuesday, around four o'clock that afternoon a heavy fog rolled in. The fog was so thick that did not dare to go any farther. The next day another attempt was made. When they had sailed for several hours. The mouth of the river Elbe came in sight. This again brought great joy to the survivors. At four o'clock that afternoon they arrived in the harbour in Cuxhaven. Because of medical investigation they were not allowed to leave the ship, but fresh water and food supplies were brought onboard. Fresh water is what they had needed most urgently. On Thursday the third class passengers were brought to Hamburg . Here they received all the attention they needed, clothing, food, blankets, lodging  and all other needs were generously given. Especially the need for clothing was great, because they had lost everything.
Till Sunday morning they had to stay in Hamburg. Then they were given the go ahead to leave. Also the money for the train trip, and that was almost everyone, was given to those who did not have any. And even though most of them could not communicate in the German and French language they made it clear that they were very thankful for everything  they had received. On Sunday Evening the Regnera's and others arrived in Groningen the north of Holland. Here to they had to stay overnight. Last Sunday in Amsterdam and now in Groningen. A lot had happened in one week. It seemed like ages had past in one weeks time. On Monday the Regnera's went by train from Groningen to Leeuwarden. From there they travelled north to Cornjum, they again they had to stay overnight. The next day at day break they travelled to their old abandoned house in Marrum.

Home for Christmas

We do not have to elaborate about the home coming. Everyone had read about the sinking of the Leerdam in the news papers, and how all the passengers had been saved and brought to Hamburg. Everyone wondered how the future would be for the family who had left only a little more then a week ago. No one stayed in uncertainty for long.
Mother Regnera found her house back the way she had left it ten days ago. Yes, it was empty and hollow but they were very thankful to pass through the door of their old home. Family, neighbours and friends brought everything they needed. Clothing and money they did not need because the survivors had been given this  generously in Cuxhaven and  Hamburg and on there way home. Not every piece of clothing fit like a glove and the most colours clashed, but everything was given with love by strangers who had shown their Christianity. By Christmas eve the little house on the sea dike had been modestly furnished. Grietje took out her psalm book. This is the only personal thing which she managed to save. All the other things, and they were quite numerous, lay at the bottom of the ocean. She had stuck this little book in her pocket this is how it was saved. She had taken the book out of her pocket in the big warehouse in Cuxhaven, and when opening it her eyes fell on psalm 61 "O God regard my humble plea I cannot be so far from thee. But thou wilt hear my cry. When I by trouble am distressed" It was a miracle that she was still able to read these comforting words. Tears welled up in her eyes as she thanked the Lord for all the miracles and guidance that had been given to them. She had told everyone who would listen in her own Friesian native language every little detail of what had happened. And she had no doubt that is was her destiny that they were saved.
The next day was Christmas day, The church bells were ringing when the Regnera's walked towards church. In church when Psalm 98 was being sung, they thought of all the wonders the Lord had done and how His right hand had reached out to them. There was no Christmas tree in the little Regnera house. As a matter of fact there were no Christmas trees in any houses, it was just not the custom to have a Christmas tree in the house in those days. Never the less the Christmas joy and thankfulness was there. That evening in their little house enjoying a cup of chocolate milk Foeke said "Mother, remember you said a couple of days ago that we had celebrated our last Christmas here?" "Yes" said Grietje. "And do you remember what you said then" said Foeke. "Yes and that was true" said Grietje. "Looking back everything was not as promising as we thought it would be, but one thing we know for certain whatever is written in the scriptures is true, people might make the roads, the Lord paves the way" said Grietje. Grietje's father walked into the little house. On this day he felt the need to be with his children. "Father" said Grietje, "I have always had the dream to see the world, but this journey was not easy and I was disappointed at what I saw". "Child" replied the old man. "The journey through this world is never easy, whether you stay in one place or visit many places. But we have seen you return from the dead. Someday this weary journey on this world will be over, but this is only possible if we believe in the Saviour  who's birth we celebrated today" "Yes father" Grietje said "And then we will all rejoice with him like we now gratefully say: home for Christmas".
 

When this story was written, in August 1919 Foekje and Grietje and all their children were still alive. Three sons and one daughter had immigrated to North America. The oldest son and three daughters stayed in their place of birth.

P.J. Wierstra